MEN’S COACHING
For Christian men who are tired of living a divided life…
…and want to lead with integrity at work and spiritually at home.
Most driven men I work with love God and love their families, and are still losing a fight they haven’t told anyone about. For most of them, the common root is lust. I help busy Christian professionals get free from it, and the vices that come with it, so they can build a life of integrity, impact and purpose.
Lasting freedom from porn and the vices that keep pulling you back, in 3–6 months
Rhythms for integrity that give you back focus and clarity
Lead your family spiritually, with confidence
What “after” looks like:
No more hiding your phone or living with a secret
Present with your wife and kids, not distracted or ashamed
Focus back at work, with energy for what God has called you to
TESTIMONIALS
What men are saying…
“Still going strong porn free, overcoming lust, temptation, growing in Christ and strengthening my marriage, fathering my kids well. It’s genuinely kingdom work.”
— Andy, 1:1 client, over a year free
“Today marks 30 days walking in purity for me, the longest I have gone in over 20 years. I have carried an identity of shame, guilt, self hatred… All of that is changing.”
— 30-day win
“When I first started with Denis and the program 70 days ago, it felt completely weird to NOT be looking at pornography as an outlet for the stress of life. Now it feels totally weird to even consider looking at pornography.”
— 70-day check-in
“Honestly, I had zero hope. Now I’m a lot more confident calling myself a Christian — I don’t doubt my salvation as much anymore. And I feel like my relationships are better now.”
— 30-day check-in
“Before joining, I could not be home alone without being tempted to watch porn. Now, 6 months or so later, I can be home alone without giving into the temptation.”
— 6 months in
WHO THIS IS FOR
Who this is for
Christian entrepreneurs, church leaders, driven fathers and professionals who want their life to count (integrity > impact). You’re done with filters, accountability apps and white-knuckling because they never reach the root. You’re no longer willing to trade your integrity for a fleeting pleasure, you believe God is calling you higher, and you don’t want another course. You want a mentor who has walked this road.
OLD WAY
Tracking days, filters, white-knuckling
Root cause unknown
New month = start over
Alone
NEW WAY
Identity transformed, heart guarded
Knowing the root problem
Healthy rhythms that last
In brotherhood
THE METHOD
The Freedom Framework
Over the last 10 years I’ve tried every strategy and system you can think of to quit lust, and spent over $50k on courses and coaches — learning from the best in the industry. What I teach isn’t something I invented from scratch; it’s a synthesis of the best of it, built into one clear model.
Why it works: filters and white-knuckling fail because they never touch the root; the Freedom Framework goes after the root (identity, mind and rhythms), not willpower alone.
The 3 steps:
1. Uncover the root cause
Why you keep going back, not just the symptom.
2. Renew the mind
Replace the lies and loops that keep the cycle alive.
3. Build healthy rhythms
Daily and weekly systems that make integrity the default.
Underneath it all is the identity frame, Be → Do → Have: Aware Identity → Actionable Integrity → Aspirational Impact.
We focus on becoming, not achieving, and on building a lifestyle that makes vices undesirable.
Most guys I work with go from struggle to strength in 30–90 days.
THE FIRST 30 DAYS
What the inside looks like
You don’t wait months to feel a difference. About 2 hours a week, and we do the hard parts together.
First 7 days: clarity and your first win
30-min Personalized Roadmap call with me. We walk Root Cause → Mindset → Rhythms → Health and fill out the Root Cause Identifier together, so you leave knowing why you keep going back.
You leave that call with a one-page 30-day action plan you can tick off day by day.
Start 2 of the 6 Daily Non-Negotiables (not all six). Small enough to keep, big enough to feel.
Join your first Monday Win the Week or Wednesday Momentum call and meet the brothers.
Win by day 7: you can name your top triggers and your root, and you’ve kept your first rhythm for a week.
First 14 days: break the cycle
Rationalizing P*rn Formula and Science Behind P*rn: see the lies and the brain loop for what they are, so willpower isn’t carrying the whole load.
Build your trigger plan: what you do instead in the moments that used to win (late nights, travel, stress).
Set your morning routine and Daily Rhythm Formula with the habit-stacking worksheets.
4 group calls in, you’re bringing real questions and getting real answers.
Win by day 14: you’ve faced at least one trigger with a plan instead of a fight, and your mornings have a shape.
First 30 days: integrity you can feel at home and work
Your Soul-Aligned Vision: who you’re becoming (Be), broken into 3-month and weekly steps (Do).
All 6 Daily Non-Negotiables in place; a weekly review rhythm so a slip is a lesson, not a restart.
One intentional step toward your wife and kids (Bible-based workshops: Genesis 2 Blueprint, Building Godly Identity).
30-day check-in: we look at the plan together and set the next 30.
Win by day 30: fewer and weaker urges, clearer focus at work, and you’re leading at home instead of hiding.
1:1 men get all of this plus a weekly 30-min call and text access, so we go deeper and faster on root cause, rhythms and relationships.
PROOF
Proof
53 men
1:1 in a single year
200+ men
Through group seminars and online communities (as of Nov 2026)
5 years
Me: years of my own freedom (going on 5 years as of Nov 2026), and the exact path I took is what I teach
Most men I meet have already spent thousands on courses, counseling and filters that never touch the root, while staying stuck keeps costing them in their marriage, their focus and their integrity. This is the synthesis of the $50k path I walked, done with you.
WAYS TO WORK TOGETHER
Two ways to walk this road
OFFER 1
Intentional Men Community
Personalized roadmap: a 30-min 1:1 call to find the gaps (Root Cause → Mindset → Rhythms → Health) and a clear 30-day action plan
2 weekly coaching calls (recorded): Monday Win the Week, 1:00 PM PT · Wednesday Momentum Call, 12:30 PM PT
Freedom Framework curriculum: Soul-Aligned Vision → Self-Leadership → Skills → Systems → Strategies
Tools we walk together on the calls: Root Cause Identifier, habit-stacking worksheets, Daily Non-Negotiables, Bible-based workshops (not homework you do alone)
Community of high-calibre Christian men, plus check-ins and reminders
$997 total, or 2 payments of $497, or $97/mo.
14-day love-it-or-leave-it policy.
OFFER 2
1:1 Mentorship + Done-With-You
The accelerator, for the man who wants the most direct path and personal attention.
Everything in the Community
Weekly 30-min 1:1 coaching call with me
Direct text access to me between calls
Done-with-you: root cause, limiting beliefs and biblical identity · habits and rhythms · vision and goals · relationships (wife, kids, church)
$3,000, or $997/mo.
Near the end, we assess what you need next.
Do the work for 30 days. If you’re not clearer on your root and rhythms, we keep working free until you are.
What you won’t get: a pile of distracting content, a hand-off to another coach, or a promise of results without your effort. My job is to empower you, not make you dependent on me. The men who do best own their results.
NEXT STEP
Next step: book a free 20-minute call
We’ll talk about where you are, where you want to be, and which option fits. If it’s a fit, we can get you started right on the call.
Still just interested? Book the same call. No pressure.
“So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” (John 8:36)
I’m not here to hype you up. I’m here to walk with you. — Denis